Life is a gift

"Rain, Rain please pour on me

Rain, Rain please set me free"

- Lucy Gocher

Hi everyone! I am sure you all are enjoying the lovely rain in Mumbai and also the people who do not live in the city is experiencing the exhilarating shower. Please enjoy the rain but make sure that you take care of your health. As much we can avoid outside food is better for our own hygiene and sanity.

Now you must be thinking why I am tempting you with this? I am so mean!! :(( Haa Haa!! ;)

However I strongly believe that do not compromise your appetite on bhaijiyas and chai in rain. Work the sweat out later but do not miss it. Just go to kitchen and help yourself. As the more you help yourself the less you  will expect others to help you. :)

To start with, I am not a regular blogger but something inside is driving me to write this. Yes! I know as a matter of fact I may have no reader too as I am not a well known personality or a celebrity. But that does not really matter. May be I have that one reader that I want who by chance reads this. In that case, I would feel my purpose is solved. I know I am taking a leap of faith but I want to take that and believe that it would help. This leap of faith I am taking for my fellow people for whom I care so much. I do not blog regularly because I don't want to write about myself,who would be any way interested to know about me? Although as a matter of fact I am quite introvert that way and love to keep my life to myself but not happiness. It is meant to be shared with everyone, smile is meant to bring on our face first and then spread it. As the perfume of happiness is such which you cannot sprinkle on others without having few drop on yourself.

I want to pay tribute to the lovely Jiah Khan who died an unfortunate death few days back and also to Bruno Mars's mother. I offer my condolence and prayers to their family and I want to dedicate a song to both of them and everyone out there reading my blog.

“Many people need desperately to receive this message: 'I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. ” 
― Kurt Vonnegut, Timequake

I am not that one person who wants to leave you alone when you are sad or will tap on your shoulder saying "I am with you" and walk my way out silently, I am also not the one possibly who will come to your rescue  in all your shortfalls but I am the one who wants you to be strong enough to deal with it, and also know that although we believe we are alone in our sorrow and pain the fact is we are not.

“A fine glass vase goes from treasure to trash, the moment it is broken. Fortunately, something else happens to you and me. Pick up your pieces. Then, help me gather mine.” 
― Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

It may be true the one whom we want the most to be with us may not be there, but there would be someone willing to stand by you, support you, and who believes in you. Above all there is one who sits all above us. When you want something desperately and you fail and still through some source you are being offered some opportunity believe that someone there is working on to fulfill your dream, all you need to do is try and work a little harder.

I say "Believe in others but believe in yourself the most and above all believe in God" 

When you want something desperately Universe conspires to achieve that for you. 

I know right now you are laughing at me thinking what the heck I am writing as I am clueless of what do you want. Your girl friend is cheating on you? Or you want a girl but unable to tell her. Your work bothering you? Or the Man of your life? Our life revolves around our work, love and family life. If any of those goes wrong then can you thank Universe for once for what is good in your life? Imagine for those, whose everything goes wrong simultaneously. Ever gave a thought how it is to them? Lets say you know it, you experienced it. So how does it feel? You don't get sleep if you get you don't want to wake up? You over eat or you don't eat? We all have our own ways to deal with our depression and still try we must do something to make us feel good.

Please try this if you can. When you are immensely sad write down in a piece of paper of the little good things that you have and what more you want or see happening. Keep reading it, draw pictures and keep looking at it and believe you are getting it. The key to happiness is imagining and believing what you want will happen to you and keeping no doubts in your heart about it. See if the sad phase do not come in our life then we do not learn, it only make us stronger. All we need to do is have a little patience to let that phase pass. Each year is a cycle starting from a second in a day. So think! a day starts with the onset of the sun in the dawn, then morning, then noon, then evening following the sunset and eventually night. It happens each and every day and help us also too to maintain order of the day. Similarly the year is comprised with seasons where we experience the hot summer, the wet monsoon, the pleasant spring and pretty autumn and gradually the chilling winter. Even time has to go through these phases each day and through out the year so we being human being also have to live phases, happiness, sadness, achievement, success, down fall etc. It is important how we hold ourselves together in all these phases.

Going away of a person from our life for example does not decides our destiny, we may feel for a time being that way. But give time some time. If someone is meant to be yours will be yours and someone is meant to stay away for your good so be it. Think about yourself, you must be having so many things which are great in your life with or without that person or the thing that you desire most. I know how it feels when you reach the edge of  your emotions. Do not tell me there is nothing to hold you back. It is your life. If you live you can always try to get your thing back or if you go away you fail for ever. I do not want you to give up on the thing you most desire until you really want to. But I want to tell you irrespective of you have that thing or not there are lots in store and also people around who are equally loving and will give you happiness that you seek.

Ok now lets talks about me!

I will share some wishes of mine with you!

I want a night adventure in a forest, camp fire, tent etc

I want to do under water diving (I dont know to swim ;))

I want to drink a bottle of scotch with on a snow caped mountain and dance like Amitabh Bachchan in Sharaabi wearing a LBD

I want to have a belly as sexy like Shakira and dance in Beautiful liar ;)

I want to run by the seaside bare footed in the rain  

I want to ride a bike and live like a hippie for a while, freak out and do some daring stuff.

SO TELL ME ABOUT YOU!

There are many other things I want to do but this is all I would share right now. ;) I am sure you can also think of hundred things  right now. So do you think you want to give up on your life? Without accomplishing it? Its not worth for anyone or anything. One life, please make the best of it. It is so so precious not only to you but look around there must be people who want you to just not write in the message that you are happy because that is what they want to read but ones who wants you to be truly happy and smiling from the bottom of your heart. As they care about you and your smile. Well I raise my hand, even if I dont know my reader who is reading it I care for you and I want you to consider that I would be happy if you try to be happy. Live life because it is beautiful and not worth losing for anyone or anything. They might get alternative of you but your family wont. Be a fighter and you will win! :)

Authored by,

Priyanka Saha

Date- 10.06.2013